In Greater Charlotte, the divorce rate is higher than both the state and national averages. Additionally, the median age for a first marriage is now nearly 30, reflecting a cultural shift toward later marital commitments. Generational data shows stark contrasts in marriage behavior, with the Silent and Boomer generations reaching nearly universal marriage rates by age 55, while Millennials and Gen Z show a marked decline. Less than 50% of Millennials are married by their late 30s, and the gap appears to be widening with each successive generation. This shift is echoed in the increasing prevalence of cohabitation over marriage among younger generations—especially Millennials and Gen Z—signaling changing views on commitment, family, and covenant relationships.

Divorce data adds another sobering layer. The highest risk for divorce remains within the first 10 years of marriage, with rates tapering off significantly after 25 years. These early-year breakups are most prominent among younger generations, underscoring the fragility of modern marital commitments. As Christian leaders, this data invites us to consider how we can support healthy marriages through discipleship, premarital counseling, and community organizations that uphold marriage as a sacred institution. The opportunity is great for churches, nonprofits, and civic institutions to collaborate in restoring a vision for marriage as a lifelong partnership centered in Christ, and rooted in sacrificial love and service.